Stella damascus,how to keep your men

Stella Damascus Teaches Women How To keep
Their Men
I want to discuss today "keeping your man".This is
for the married women o please this is not targeted
at single girls.
Now we know that the one thing men cannot live
without apart from money is S&X. In this forum I
really don't care where anyone is from or what
religion you belong to, I will be as raw and honest
as possible.
I do not understand why women especially Africans
do not talk about sex when we know that it is the
one thing we do regularly with so much pleasure.
Anyway our men love s&x to the max and we know
that for a fact. So how come when we are dating
them we are so willing to give them what they want
even though we know it is wrong. The first few
years of marriage is filled with sex almost five
times a day in different parts of the house and at
odd hours, but after the few years we start to back
down, we start to make excuses, we start to see it
as a chore and then we let them know that we are
really not interested in them physically.
Wow, what happened to the lady fox, the hot chic,
the sexy cat that he got married to?
What happened to the babe that would understand
the signal he would give and immediately comply?
What happened those times when he would race
home to his sexy energetic ever ready wife who
would make him feel wanted?
I know that most of you will say "I have kids who
wear me out, I have work that drains me, I got
older, my sex drive has gone under, I have a
headache" to the point that the man will need to get
a visa at your "embassy" to visit his favorite place
in the World.
When you do this to him, how do you expect him to
come home everyday to look at your tired, grumpy
and unfriendly face?
How would you expect him to come home to you
complaining about the plumber, your child that was
being rude, and your boss that gave you a hard
time?
NOOOOOOO please.
At that point he wants you to take him to that
special place were the sky is so wonderful and turn
his brain around to the point that all you say will
sound like sweet music to his ears.
These men are human beings who go through their
own challenges, half of which you don't even know
because they are trying to save you from all the
stress.
What annoys me the most is when we women start
to complain and nag about the men not having time
for us, and how they no longer find us attractive
anymore and that's where the suspicion starts.
That's when the saying comes, "if he is not getting
it from me someone else must be giving it to him’.
I don't encourage cheating at all in fact it goes
against what the bible teaches no matter what. I will
not also judge anyone who has been caught in a
web he is not proud of for one reason or the other.
I believe that if we are truly sorry for our sins and
we go to God with the determination not to sin
again, he is merciful and will forgive us.
In all of this I know that all men are not beasts,
neither are they evil because we married them. I
also know that men do not get married and carry it
at the back of their minds that they must cheat.
That's not how it works please. There are things
that we do that trigger things in their brains and
these things drive them to do things that they really
would not have done. Most of us believe it when
they say men don’t think with their brains but they
think with their penis. I beg to differ because they
know what they are doing and I don’t see how the
penis can have a brain that will control the whole
body. There is always something that sparks off in
the brain that sends the signal to the p3nis.
You may or may not agree with me but this is what
I choose to believe. Most men we married are not
so evil and dubious, some may be cowards but cast
your mind back to the kind of man you chose to
marry and see if there were traces of that character
or not.
What men want:
- They want to feel like they are in control of things
which is not bad because they are the head.
- They want to feel loved and like it or not they are
our first babies who desire words of affirmation no
matter how macho they seem.
- They want to feel WANTED all the time, it gives
them the confidence that all men crave for.
- They want to know you are still sexually attracted
to them.
- They don't want you to make it obvious that you
are smatter even if you are.
- They like their space and alone time.
- They don't want to come home to a fat mama
who is the opposite of the sexy curvy woman he
fell in love with, because she let herself go after
they got married. Why should she try and look the
same? She is married now, who else does she have
to impress? WRONG! Men are first of all moved by
what they see before anything else. So when they
can't see that anymore or at least an effort to
getting back that body that turned them on, they'll
probably lose interest in you and find it someone
else.
- They don't want to come and hug you after work
with you are smelling of onions and oil. At least
take a shower before he gets there or if there is no
time spray perfume.
- They want to come home to a nice smelling neat
and tidy home.
- They want to walk into the bedroom with the bed
all made up and clothes arranged. Maybe a small
note on his pillow saying I love you and I am glad
you are home, that definitely puts an automatic
smile on his face even if for three seconds, it keeps
him interested in you
- They want you to be a good listener not just a
talker.
- They want to know that you believe in them and
you are proud of them.
- They want to know that no matter what you will
have their back and support them, then ask
questions later.
- They just want to see that you are making an
effort because no human should expect you to be
perfect.
- They don't want another mother but they want
you to take care of them the way you would your
kids.
- They want a wife, girlfriend, sorry to say (personal
call girl) which is not a bad thing because he is
your husband who is free to express his sexual
desires as long as they are not life threatening or
demeaning.
There are so many things I can add and you will not
stop reading so let me end this by saying: if you do
not try to do at least 60 percent of this regularly,
trust me a younger version of you will cross his
path and that is exactly how the enemy works.
When that younger and more energetic version of
you catches his eye, your matter will quietly end.
This girl will rock his world so bad that coming
home to you will become a chore. These girls can
give him all these things and even more that the
men find it so difficult to resist. All the money that
was supposed to go to you and your children will
find their way to her pocket. They can get anything
they want from your man because they know the
secret to getting and keeping him.
I know that this article will cause a lot of
controversial wahala but it is fine because in life
people don't like to hear the truth. This might also
be an opportunity for people to make silly
comments but the truth is I am loving it all. I finally
have the attention of people who will ordinarily not
want to listen to me or watch me.
Ladies on a more serious note, if you are guilty of
these crimes and are depriving your husband of
what is rightfully his then don't be shocked when a
younger version of you gets the best of him.
I will let you all know when the extended version of
this topic will be on my YouTube channel. God will
bless your homes and give you the wisdom you
need to keep it together.
Think about this objectively, try out what you agree
with and discard what you don't. Leave the
messenger out of it for a change and see the bigger
picture ahead